Newmama, yes I do. It's a good job. The reason in fact we came back to my country. They held my position, god love 'em, for a couple of years. And I have good mat leave, and child care options. I count myself lucky.
Yes, I suppose he will write again. I do feel like the other email is a tad STRONG! (That's an understatement)
So working on a possible alternative.... how about something like:
"Dear - Thanks for your email. Sorry things didn't go so well for you. It's a tough market - but I'm sure something will come up in time. I have to let you know that have given this a lot of thought, and it's important to let you know that ending our marriage the way you did, by cutting and running, having an affair, while I am pregnant with our first child, and by being unwilling to attend marriage counseling, means I have no intention of being your freind, much less 'best friends'. I get that your done with "us", and that right now our joint investment is in this child. But having space right is great for me and the baby, so thank you for respecting that. Also, because I'll be on mat leave in 4 weeks time, I'm thinking through some practical issues to do with my income and our apartment. I'll be in touch about any decisions I make. Take care"
Could remove bit in bold altogether if it stands out like a sore thumb & is aggressive too soon.
Thoughts? Delete this one too?
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
