But if you do want to explain to him that you need peace to be left alone, I advise that it be short- 4-5 sentences long. And kind, not bossy. ONLY because he will actually be receptive to the email and not get so angry that he will not "comprehend" it Do you know what I mean?
No contact is done best, IMO, if there is an explanation to the WAS about why you are doing it. Otherwise it comes across as a childish game. But the truth is that it is too painful to see him right now and you would like him to please respect your need for space. YOu love him and want to stay married to him but cannot see him while he is___________ (with OW, not wanting to work on the marriage, etc- choose your phrase). I still love that letter from Penny!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
