Gatsby, thankyou for posting your story... You are very strong - good on you, and you'll lots of support here! It sounds like having your own place has been important in rebuilding.
Do you plan to do NC for long?
Is your H in any shape to eventually get involved?
I think NM is right - there has to be some benefits of doing this alone. As I shop for baby things, at least I don't have to drag someone along kicking and screaming, or argue over what to purchase!!
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
