My husband also first started distancing himself while I was 6 months pregnant but it was also at the time that we first moved in together...we were long distance for the first 4 months of our marriage and got pregnant on the honeymoon. I also was told by the doc that I would have a hard time getting pregnant due to my fibroids but go figure I get pregnant with no problem.

Newmama is full of inspiration with how she has handled her stitch. I am just getting to the point of being happy alone. I moved out 3 weeks ago and am just still getting off the rollercoaster with husband :-)

Sounds like you are doing great. Congrats on the new apartment and you really did well doing the baby registry alone. I would have also cried but good that you got it out and then moved on with the rest of your day.

I agree that the first 3 months are difficult but what got me through was knowing that it was ONLY 3 months. My son was colicky which made things tricky but now it is a distant memory and he will be turning 1 next month :-)


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo