H stopped in yesterday after taking D14 shopping. He came upstairs to the bedroom and got some spring clothes he'd left. I asked if he wanted his ties-he siad he'd get them another time.
So today after dropping D12 off at home he came and got the rest of his stuff out of our closet(ties, hats..) and emailed me that he'd done that.
He hasn't cleared out his nightstand or taken his golf clubs..just odd the things he's getting all of a sudden. I really think he's not coming back to me. I think he's still in the MLC fog..but I really can't see him being with me, or me being married to him, as he is. He seems like a stranger more and more..there's no spark, no happiness, no love.
Just sad about it, but I'm moving on. Kind of just wish this whole divorce was over and done, then I think maybe what has happened will really sink in with H. Maybe I wouldn't feel in limbo...
Funnily, H set up the kids college accounts to be "fed" by the money market $$ his lawyer wants us to split..this was what H and I had originally talked about..I don't think H has told his lawyer he did this..but its what should have been done to begin with! Just so weird.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
