Idon'tunderstand, hell yes this would be easier without kids! You divide the assets, move the stuff out, grieve and mourn the marriage, and then detach because you never have to see them again.

Got kids- signing up for a lifetime of seeing the spouse who hurt you and caused you so much pain. Then there are the kids' issues because of it....and all the parenting differences...aiyaiyai!

So I would think it is just as painful regardless if you have kids or not, but it is SIMPLER without kids!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004