hi luvless; I've been following your thread for a while, but I just haven't posted yet.

It sounds like you've got a lot to think about right now, living in limbo land. Filing for divorce, busting your h's affair, db'ing, etc.

for whatever it's worth. Early in my sitch my W was in an EA, possibly PA. I had contact info for the OMW, but I didn't think I had enough evidence, so I waited. Soon it was too late. I now wish I had taken some action.

You said earlier that feel criticized for somehow not doing enough to save your M. I hope my post doesn't feel like criticism. I almost didn't post. I just want to offer support!

hang in there.


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