I'm sorry you are having such a tough night. That call sounds rough, especially with S grieving too and the apt. sighting and all. I hope your H hops off fence sometime soon too. If you want to hear something besides complaints tonight, you or S are going to have to say it unfortunately. I'm glad your H is not at your house tonight though. As rough as this is, I just think a meltdown could have happened or H saying something angry that would have felt like a big setback to you. I know you have hoped for more by this time. I'm going to reframe his $100 complaint and be thankful he is still going to MC instead of jumping out of it when it got rough.