Well Ken, I thought I suggested you to NOT invite her, to just make teh plan for yourself and make her aware she was welcome to join you... and I thought I said buy a gift for the HOME
You bought HER chocolates and invited her to dinner?
That's a WEE BIT of PURSUIT.. and you got exactly what MWD would have warned you would happen... she fled!
You need to stop the chase.. NOW
OK ken, so re the OM, what is his WIFE doing about all of this? Does he believe something is happening between these two NOW?
