Nah - I'm gonna petition for support or I guess I already have when I filed the D. Now I'm going to school for me.

Any resentment I have for her doesn't or wouldn't stem from her not getting anything out of me going to school. I resent her for betraying me, reneging on the plans we made, picking names out with me for the children we will never have, etc. I'll get over it with time though.

If she has to pay me spousal support it will be garnished so we don't have to interact, and I can't be friends with her if she is with someone else. Now she is alive to me but eventually I hope it will be like she is just out there (dead seems kinda harsh).


Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10