I haven't been posting as much lately but thanks a lot for checking in on my sitch. It has been a long ride so far but there is a saying around here that DBing is not a sprint, it is really a marathon. Not much more progress on my end recently. Me and my W ended up having a tough R discussion this weekend and if anything, things are worse now than they were due to some new revelations about how W feels about me. In some ways, these revalations hurt worse than her A but, they do give me a lot of clarity into what is important to her right now and how we have ended up where we are. It hurts but I really am looking at this as things are going to get worse before they get better and that they ultimately will get better no matter if she stays or goes. I hope your weekend was good, heading over to check on your thread now.