I'm still in same spot as ever. Join the alt if curiosity gets the better of you and you need the super gorey details. LOL.

Mostly I'm working on my own stuff, keeping up with my GAL, life's transitions caused by this, and limbo, limbo.

This poster Nicole has a sitch similar to yours that she is talking to a DB coach about tomorrow. Let me get you the link.

About the renovations, sometimes they consider things pressure that LBS sees as normal politeness or fun times. I'm not saying don't; I'm just warning.