You ever notice how some of the things we fear are the hardest things to do end up being pretty easy? That's the way I look at this. When I'm scared, I panic and blow the whole situation out of proportion. But as I live and move through it, it just gets easier and easier. Even the OW doesn't seem like an issue anymore. He has his rights to whatever that ends up being, and I have the right to sit back with popcorn and watch the carwreck that I know it will be. Maybe all you need is a different perspective. And to put those photos away where you don't have to see them.
((HUGS))
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.