WAW in PA-I Moved Out in Error & D has been Filed

[Quart9]

Do you really want to rely on her to be paying your bills?

That was the plan when it was decided we would move out here for me to go to school. Should that change just because she decided to break our vows to screw another dude and end our marriage?

I could get by with living off of school loans if I had to, but it would probably cost me about $160k (or more) instead of about $120k to finish at this school if I did not receive spousal support.

Guys - I completely own up to my portion of this marriage failing. I made mistakes. I feel shame, guilt, anger (at myself), and disgust for not doing better on my part to make our marriage better. I have lost a great woman. I loved her more than anything.

But I never flirted, kissed, or screwed another woman behind my W's back (or in front of her-lol!), and I certainly never set out to start a new relationship while I was still married with another married woman.

I plan to learn from my mistakes and when I have the opportunity to get married again I hope and pray I will be a much better husband.