The link to my original post is in both of those threads.
Forgive the innuendo but my new thread title comes from my association of the color RED with passion Since that had gone out of my M and is now back in TECHNICOLOR I opted to go with the reference
I won't bore anyone with the background of my sitch...it can be read about via the links I posted. I will post a summary of the major Positives though
1.H and I had our big TURNAROUND at the end of Aug. After the dropping of the bomb, a very difficult summer and the reveal of the A I still wasn't ready to give up. I got DR and read it. It took me two weeks to actually put it in motion. H finally fully committed to the M of his own choice. It has been fairly smoothe sailing since then although I do have my rocky moments,
2.We have had NO major backsliding since Aug. A stumble once in awhile but nothing that we couldn't resolve.
3. Our communication skills are getting better.
4. Passion is back in our M as well as committment to each other.
5. H figured out that there was NO ONE better for him then ME He shows his appreciation of that revelation by speaking MY LL's.
6. H says that WE are a SUCCESS STORY!
Well, that should get this new thread started. I have been up since 3:30 am (didn't go to bed until MID) and am feeling really squirrelly right now so forgive my sloppy typing and rambling thoughts today
LOVE YOU ALL and thank you for ALL of your support and wonderful ADVICE! Thank you Michele for giving me the tools to make my M a success!
Zoo
"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm."
- Mahatma Gandhi