Thanks for the chat, Kat! Glad to get caught up....
D10's IEP meeting was today. That went well, they all love D10, think she's great. X was acting like a normal person, even held the door open for me when we left the meeting. Then he complained about everything--the race I didn't let D10 run a month or 2 ago when she was sick and the day before our D hearing, upset I told D10 that I couldn't afford a trip: D10 told me that he told her he would have the money to take her to Busch Gardens this summer, no, I don't have the money for that, and told her so, and I was glad her dad was going to take her.
I mean full of rage about my trip comment. Upset I'm not helping to pay D10's ot he's taking her to now. One time so far! I took both kids to counseling, ST, and OT last year just thousands of dollars I spent, and reminded him about that. He said that was HIS money (the child support and alimony). Such a lovely guy!
I vented with friends at work, and that helped. Kept busy, I'm actually fine. Ready to have this all over with. I just can't understand how X can keep the anger going for so long. A friend was saying most of what he's mad about seems to be $$$. Prob. true.
I think a year ago I would have been upset all day, but today maybe 30 minutes or so. So some progress there....