In my last meeting with L I questioned her about that - why couldn't W just get and RO anyhow. L explained the she has to feel physically threatened by me to file an RO. Then we would have to go to a hearing and she would have to explain this threat. I would have an opportunity to explain my side of the story and then the court would decide.
I would never harm her or any other woman, but if we were ever alone by ourselves it would be her word against mine. As long as I am never around her without a witness we're good.
I'm going (with a friend) this week to get the rest of my stuff out of the apt and after that I will have her served. As far as I know she does not know the D has been filed.
Me-32 W-29 No kids ILYBNILWY 11.20.09 Separated 01.10.10 Discovered EA 01.13.10 W admitted to PA 02.21.10 I filed for D 03.09.10