Been thinking a lot about all of the support I have received here and the encouragement. I have been focused TOO much on my H and what he has done or is doing. I must say that I am disappointed that he has not even attempted to contact me. Makes my think that I do NOT cross his mind at all (although I know that may be be "my" thinking).

He has been very insensitive because of the listing of items in our home that he wants to split. Since I had a tough time yesterday and this morning. I am going to "ignore" his email and just leave it at that......

You have all told me not to worry about my H, but I can't help but be concerned about what he is doing and who with.

I did spend time with a girlfriend and her kids today and this evening. It was great to spend time with them and get my mind off of my H.

OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty
Me 44
H 51
T 15 yrs
M 9+ yrs
No Kids
"You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."