Please help with advice and support

[sandi2]

But for a minute there she seemed like the person I knew, not the person she's invented for herself.

And, I think this is what may be so hard for the LBH....when he sees that girl he fell in love with. When she's acting like the stranger you wonder about, it is easier (in ways) to let go, but those few moments that you get a glimpse of the real person, your heart wants to believe she's back.

I've read some LBH's say that gave their W a kiss b/c that is what he "wanted" to do so he did it. That is a man fooling himself and not DBing.

I just wanted to say goodbye to the woman I loved.

I'm so sorry. There are a few of us that do come back.