Good point, flowmom. Maybe I can wait to involve him when I have a better idea of where things are going or if/when he chooses to return to the home. However, now that I think about it, involving him might be a 180 for me. Hmmm. Going to have to ponder this one. I don't want to be presumptuous, but I don't want to exclude him from something important that he would enjoy. Tough.