Hi Frank..

What a day.. what a long four years. What a relief, what a joy, what a sadness.

I feel great anger at how the laws and guidelines of the state of NY create such toxic environments in divorcing homes, making a bad situation worse, evolving to toxic insanity and inequitable results.

Thank goodness you're the man and father you are. Strength, honor. It's nice being the fun parent. Being a safe harbor, a constant in your children's lives is priceless. You are the father and the daddy. Your children know, love and depend on you. And they're at the age where even if you cannot tuck them in every night, you can be involved in their sports, after school activities, as much as your time allows.

It takes time, but things end up working. You've had the strong positive attitude through the duration of this process. Thank goodness it only lasted as long as a single presidential term. What a soft relief it will be to live a life based in reality, rather than jockeying for position while watching your back.

Children need both parents. And you're the type of dad many children dream of. Thank you for sharing your perseverance, nobility and beauty of the soul. You're a good guy.

*hugs*

Now.. about that mole on my shoulder... smile