I came across a quote about relationships as I've been struggling w/my own personal love disappointments and it made me think of you (and others here), so I'll share it.
Quote:
The power in a relationship lies with the one who needs it the least.
It may or may not work for you, Sunshine, but it made me realize that if I don't keep my own self in line, I'll become needy and dependent on others. So, I look to this to keep me focused on what I can control - me.
Wow. That makes me think.
Last edited by flowmom; 03/16/1012:22 AM.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.