I have been lurking around here and found your story inspiring.
I dont want to get into my story too much. We've been through 3 Marriage Family Therapists. The last one was willing to help us with sensate focus (sex therapy) and has worked with us on our communication problems (work in progress), but my wife is unwilling at this time to do any of that (sensate focus) at this time.
Anyway, I am based out of the Los Angeles area and was wondering how you found your sex therapist - or if your therapist could recommend someone out here.