Hi Round2,

I've been going through something pretty similar with my W. In my case, W had a mini breakdown a couple of weeks ago. She admitted that she used to be a rock star mom, but lately hasn't been. I think it is just part of what they have to go through.

I agree they have to feel the pain. It is too much for them to handle, though, so they run back into the tunnel. Hence the confusion. But each time they have these experiences, I think they are able to process more.

Keep strong, you're doing great.


Me: 43
W: 40
S10,S7
M12, T13+

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952314&page=1