I feel like everyone here is blaming me for this not working.
Just to be clear, I do not blame you. And I did live with a H who was "checked out" for a long time before we separated. It was very painful.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
