H4L, taking antidepressants is probably the best thing H could have done for our M when we still had a chance. We did MC but that didn't help the depression which was a major underlying issue in our M. Don't minimize the step that your H is taking by 1. acknowledging a problem 2. DOING something about the problem 3. doing something that WORKS!! And give yourself credit too: it could be the changes that you've made that make him WANT to make it work and WANT to try everything including meds. Before my H moved he said that that our M shouldn't be so bad that he had to take AD just to cope with it . See the difference??
Originally Posted By: rr22
Maybe he feels guilty or scared about bombiversary. If he wants to proceed on side of caution, let him. You will have an easier job acting as if if he's not there acting as if NOT.
Good point.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. See the difference?? 
