Thanks Snodderly for the clarity for me to make decisions about moving forward.
To be honest I thought he was up to something over the past week as he has looked so guilty I thought he had another holiday planned.
When you see glimpses of your old H it is so difficult to remember that he is not the old H but an alien.
As hard as it is he needs consequences for his decision now. I am going to set the boundaries about not entering my home without me being here. I don't trust him here and have found things missing before.Also tell him to move his bikes and engineering tools. I am also not going to give advice that he asks for the business. As he has moved inwith OW that should also be part of the package. The business is in crisis anyway due to the spend spend spend culture he is currently in.
I do have one worry in that he continues to pay the mortgage and bills for our home. If he withdraws that I am doomed.
