She's been having webcam sex for months

[MICrazy]

I disagree with you L and C. I think the OM's wife should know. Your wife does not sound that remorseful and does not seem to care about the full impact of what she is doing. What she is doing does not just impact her family alone. You need to set some serious boundaries with serious consequences. If you are going to contact these om, then you need to leave now. If you are going to have cybersex with om then I will press for full custody. Plain and simple with her.
Shock

Shocked one,

Actually my counselor hasn't said one way or the other about telling the OM's wife. I think he feels she should know about it too. He just believes that she'll find out someday anyway. The truth always rears its head.

I don't think my W is doing the cybersex thing anymore, ATM. I have set some boundaries...She knows that if I found out I would tell all her relatives about what she was doing and throw all her stuff out in the yard...I still hold some of the cards. Also, she probably thinks I would drag her into a long court battle. She's right.

Thanks for your post.

MICrazy