Piano, a lot of people here, including me, will say that WAH HAS to hit rock bottom before the fog will start to lift and he'll start to see what poor choices he has made.
It sounds as if that might be starting to happen, but now's not the time to be feeling all sorry for him.
He needs to earn it.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010