HeartsBlessing - thank you for your post and you didn't confuse me at all - MLC confuses me sometimes but your post help me enormously to realise that I wasn't going completely bonkers.

The human spirit is an amazing thing and you seem to have weathered the emotional rollercoaster of not one but two MLC's and are still smiling and standing face o the sun to tell the tale.

I have found a little bit of peace when I 'help' my peers who are going through this journey. There are some incredibly kind and generous people who help, depsite their own pain and the impact they have on others will often go unheard - so thank you HeartsBlessing and Snodderly from the bottom of my breaking heart for your kindness.

C-Bart - wow your own MLC - I hope your session with your IC has gone well and you were bale to understand a little bit more about your situation and the influences these children have on you. My husband is in such pain and is still in deep deep replay so he will have no cognisence of his situation i imagine. This next request is without hope or agenda but a genuine wish to understand more - would you be abe to PM me with your sitch and what insights your IC gave you please? I would understand totally if you felt this course of action inappropriate but the knowledge I have gained from this Forum and various others has stood me in good stead and helped me make some right decisions for me and my 2 children. The time may be now or way in the future but I would welcome the chance to understand more.

Peace be with you all this evening

lalxx


Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011