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Gypsy #1958790 03/15/10 03:31 PM
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Frank.. do you have any family or friends there?

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No. Alone. My office manager was here but she was released.

OK...here we go. From L:
-there is no way, based on my job that this judge is going to give me custody.
-I will do much worse if we go to trial
-her atty threatens to bring an expert that will testify what a surgeon should be making and impute my income
-custody pretty much standard. 2 dinners for me during the week; every other weekend
-would raise my income a bit to increase child support
-60/40 favoring me on sale of house
-maintenance for 3 years

L is now back in courtroom. If not signed today, trial.
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I shall offer prayer support. Hope things are pretty well equitably sorted out.

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I would hope that you're finished by now Frank, but I wanted to let you know that I'm still listening and praying.

I've never understood how custody could be so unequal when the father is a caring, loving, and involved man. Truly our legal system makes no sense and only does further harm to hurting families.

Let the end come, however. You've served your time and need the opportunity to begin living your life again.


Many blessings,

Bill


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Offering support too.

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In essence, all the affidavits, police calls, motions....mean nothing.

For 4 years I have remained under the same roof. I've seen D6 grow from 2-6, S9 from 5-9. Was it worth it in view of the abuse STBXW dished out?

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BillM..Bworl...thanks for your support.

Dad's don't cut it in NY. No bruise or cigarette burns? They go to mom.

Almost 4. L is in chambers. My butt hurts from sitting on these wood benches all day.F


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
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Thinking of you Frank...
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I've tossed the cushion off my chair in solidarity, though I suspect people in the know wear bike shorts when sitting in the hallways on these days.

Was it worth it? Only you know.. but the memories you've made with your children can never be taken away.

*hugs*

Rooting for you.

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Your kids are about the same as mine. At least they've grown to the point to remember you in the house.

The test is from today forward. No matter how it turns out be the better person and give them an example of what a great man and parent is.

If you do that, your ex can't tear you down.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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