lol - guess your book reading is just a bit further along than mine at this point
The affair in my home lasted three years off and on... you have no idea how many times I heard it was over only to find out a month later it was back on again.. The OM in my situation was ten years my wife's junior, single, and very aggressive, he had no reason NOT to pursue her... and she was too vulnerable to say no at the time.
So, I had three years to learn.. he's gone now (over four month now) and I don't believe he's coming back ... but I come here and give advice anyways. Its part of my growth efforts... the more I explain my views on marriage and commitment the stronger my own become.
