Wife in love with another man, I need help

[Jonpen]

but what about the D on the 19th? she is just going to go file, she already showed me what she is proposing and I won't fight it if it turns out exactly as she showed me. I am looking for advice if any of you think it's still possible to save my marriage. I have blocked all forms of communication that I can control, (cell phones, facebook, all online chat) I will try to answer some of the questions you all previously asked. No, she is not willing to stop the affair, she flat out told me to stop trying to run her life and gave me the normal fog babble WS speeches.

In no way does she want to save the marriage or even attempt it. She is going to file on the 19th, she already showed me the papers and she has the money. I expose to the OM's wife everytime I catch them talking. I do not think she is talking to him but I could be wrong, plus she told me "I will talk to whoever I want" she also told me she is in love with him and wants to be with him.

I played the "nice" role for about 2 months and I have just now been doing the 180 for a little over 1 week, I am now going out with friends all the time and moving on with my life without her, this is very difficult because I still live with her and see her everyday. She is actually very nice to me now that I have "accepted the D" and I told her that I could not love the person she has become, but I do miss the person she was"

I want to get to the point where we are sleeping in the same bed, being intimate and at least have a start on fixing the marriage. She told me she no longer has any feelings towards me and she no longer wants to be married to me. Her family does not condone the affair but they accept that she no longer wants to be with me.
I am not working so I do not have any income or $$ I go to school FT, thats why she is forcing me to accept the D I cannot afford to fight it. I told her over and over I don't want it, I told her I truly believe we could have a happy loving marriage, but nothing at all clicks with her.
We still take the kids out to the park together sometimes, and we even still laugh and joke with each other around the house, but I only do this when she approaches me, I never up and talk to her or come to her for anything. When she comes to me I try to keep the conversation as short as possible.

I need ALOT of advice guys, I don't know if anything I am doing is right or not, I do not hurt near as bad as I did 2 months ago when I was being "nice" that was torture. Now that I am getting out, being with friends and having fun without her the pain is slowly fading, but my love for her is fading as well.
Please help anyway that you can.