Originally Posted By: gman

There is no question in my mind that I love her, but what do I do? My trust is gone for her, betrayed is an understatement.


This is the hardest part. Even 3+ yrs later, I'm still struggling with the trust part.

I know I've forgiven him, or I believe I would still be very angry & bitter, but I just still don't trust him.

Make sure you guys go through counseling and really make sure everything is cleared up! Just saying, from experience smile I didn't & wish I had.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10