Hey Mind... if you go to the love languages website there is info on love languages for kids... I think there is even a book on it. I found it very helpful. I can't remember the web address tho... might need to google it.
You continue to inspire me. With your example and CB holding me accountable I am starting to get more active too! Just walking so far, but it's all good. Just cuz I lost weight on the "LBS diet" doesn't mean I am healthy or fit
On another note... it sounds to me like you are making progress with detaching. I know how hard it is but you seem to be able to more easily do what you need to do for you when H is in one of his moods, rather than letting it get you too far down. That is progress my friend!
Actually, truth be told, the TODO list was nothing, but I just don't like to do paperwork! UGH!!! And, to his defense, we hire most everything done around here, since he knows the schedule I keep, and his lack of ability to help...
The running, too slow? LoL Hey, I wouldn't want to go too fast. I have great new running outfits to be seen in! Actually, again, I'm not a great athlete. The pace is just fine!!! I was always a sprinter, as I played D1 tennis. I never was distance, so this is good for me! I like the interval training, too.
cookies, YUM
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Reading about your running with your dog! Good for you! I need to get back to walking (no running...ick!)as like RW said...far from being in shape...my dog would love to go for a walk too!!!!
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Hi, Mindfull! Is this new for you to talk about your concerns with H? Like when you discussed how he was too grumpy last weekend? Woo hoo!
Okay about the sugar...peanut M&Ms are allowed because they have protein! And DARK chocolate peanut M&Ms are even better! (lol) Snickers, peanut m&ms and cadbury mini eggs are my favorite candies ever....
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Mindfull, you come off as pretty good at being able to be mindful too. I am really impressed with your sticking to exercising! Like RW, I've lost a lot of weight on the LBS plan, but I actually think that exercise would help more with feeling good about myself and my body.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
I'll find the site. I had this visual, sitting S12 down and making him take the quiz! LMAO!!!
Yea for the walking! That's good, too. Truth be told, I probably walk faster than I run! Ha!
I didn't feel so detached last night, but thank you... I am dealing w/him better. I'll take the highs, and make the lows shorter, faster, and DONE! (He seriously pissed me off though, all weekend, w/his pissy attitude... then doesn't even realize he had one? SMACK!)
Onward. Upward!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Just cuz I lost weight on the "LBS diet" doesn't mean I am healthy or fit 