Guys -

Just spoke with A. Further proof of A will do nothing but may help with division of assets but that would be up to the judge. It will not have any impact on custody. At this point since her job schedule is not set I may have a better chance of getting 50/50 split but my two oldest are old enough to decide for themselves. They just may decide to stay with Mom since I believe she is feeding them crap. So I may end up with 50/50 with my D only. That though could also be up to a judge if we cannot agree on terms. In terms of staying in the house...well that too could be up to a judge if we do not agree. Right now I feel like crap! I feel somewhat stuck. I know that I will get thru this but boy am I pissed. So W gets to screw around with someone else and I get shafted. Nice real nice. This is so freaking wrong.


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