Today I evaluated some of my "more of the same" behavior and I've pretty much enabled him and bailed him out any time he had issues. That is going to stop.
As for your concerns above... THANK YOU. But it's like someone mentioned a long time ago: Sometimes I see glimpses of the person he USED to be, the person I fell in love with. At this point, he is someone I don't know and don't want to be with. Will he change "back" or will he continue on this selfish road? I don't know, but I'm not going to put money in his hand every time he holds it out any more.
I need some time to think about the other (P) angle of my sitch, though, so forgive me if I'm not around as much.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
