thank you for your post --- I am really in a funky zone now and just dont know what my next move (if any) is. Talked to my A on Thursday and he confirmed that she had filed but had not hired a law firm. She called me a few times on Friday to ask me about the car (wiper blades) I talked to her and gave her the info she needed and wished her a good bike ride on Sat but I have not talked to her since then.
At this point I am just not sure what I want to do. She dumps the "d" bomb on me and files, yet she has not officially hired a DA yet, even though there was one that helped her file the papers. (btw, I still have not yet received them but they were filed on the 1st of March) Then she calls me a few times and text messages me and sends me email links. Is she trying to b my "buddy" ? Is she looking for my forgiveness and my validation for her crazy behavior? Should I stay distant and dark or do I continue to call her like and see her like I was doing before the "d" bomb? I dont know and am really ready , at this point, to throw in the towel and move on. I feel I have tried and tired and am still just pushing rope uphill. Just not sure what else I can do. Seems everything I do is wrong!
Thanks for listening.
NSD
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Me 47 WAW 48 No Kids M-20y T-24y B#1 2-20-09 B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907
