He is dealing with it. He is living with it. He is living with the guilt. He is living with what he did.

Just as you are.

Talking about it must be about communication, about trust, about boundaries, about recommitment.

It can't be about punishing him, or making sure he feels guilty enough. That only gets in the way of having a M and R.

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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