my god man....you need to write a book about this stuff....lol

Originally Posted By: Allan A
I am not telling you to be warm and encourage her.. she HURT you, but do mak sure she understands that you love your marriage and your children and are willing to explore reconcilliation for the six months... tell her there is hope and that you love your family enough to try.

Tell her that YOU are hurt and YOU are willing to try.. the least SHE can do is put forth 50% and try alongside you.


i am trying to memorize the prayer as well as your comments above - so i can useboth of them daily

so letting her read DR is an option for her now? back when i was busting i was told not to even let her see it, but the table is bnow turned?

M-37 W-36
S-11, S-9, D-4
PA exposed 3/13/10
10/19/10 moving on...
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