ok... did some spying and saw some online conversations my H was having with a few people about this....to one guy he said stuff like yeah man im just out doing my own thing, im gonna try to get orders to vegas after here (this is coming from a guy who has ALWAYS said he just wants to live closest to his daughter who is in Missouri) then says to another person who asked him hows the wife?? he replied im getting a divorce, yeah just decided im not cut out for it (this coming from a man who has ALWAYS been the family type who talks about nothing but wanting that white picket fence family and kids) who is this guy???? it scares me how different this is from the man i have been married to. Then, Im on facebook, not saying anything to him, and he IM's me all of a sudden and says "so you got a boyfriend or something? dont make me snap when i come back to turkey, i will claim ptsd!" i said what?? he said im just joking.... wtf?? This whole vegas thing is totally out of left field... all i can figure out is that he had some friend out in iraq that is from that area and just talked up his life like it was the next best thing to sliced bread... and now he thinks i want that too... when ALL he ever wanted was to have a family and be in love and have a wife who loved him etc... I am so discouraged... i cant imagine living in this house with him for the next couple weeks... and then still waiting it out to see what his next move is going to be... and then him just going home for two weeks to party it up and possibly file... this is AGONY! i dont even want him to come home anymore, i cant imagine seeing him and him telling me he doesnt love me or want to be with me to my face and me still having to be here for a while longer... or him dangling me along just enough to keep this friendly, maybe try to sleep with me... but still drop me. This is the kind of scenario where i just KNOW the day will come when he is like damn, what did i do... that pisses me off! We are supposed to be getting pregnant and starting our family and he wants to party it up. He should have thought of that 3 years ago before he proposed! somebody help me... should i give up??
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Me: 25 H:25 M: 2yrs T: 4yrs No Kids Bomb: 11 Feb 10 Newcomers Story
