No, I haven't specifically told BF about coming here. He does know that I'm on a relationship message board and that I've made friends (because I plan on meeting up with a couple when we're traveling this spring!). I try to keep the site name not visible when I'm using the computer while sitting next to him, but I am on while sitting next to him so if he looks over he'll see what I'm doing. I don't want him to come here and figure out who I am and see what all I've written over the past fifteen months. And my laptop has been password protected ever since this sitch started so he can't just go into my bookmarks and see where I've been.

I think if you want to keep it to yourself then that's fine. H doesn't need to know everything about you. If you feel the need to share then you can always do so in generalities.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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