yes, I can identify with that out-of-body experience thing.

and the dreams--yeah, definitely can see that you feel like you're hanging and about to be overwhelmed by a wave. I dont' think they're predictive as much as they reveal things we're feeling.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012