New here but have been a voyeur

[pearlharbr]

Before you do anything, consult with your attorney. S/he is the best person to advise you on how / when / where to serve. Remember, divorce proceedings are the business of ending a marriage. They should be handled without emotion as much as possible. It's about looking out for yourself legally and financially. While I'm sure it would feel good to out them to everyone at the office, I'm not sure that would be in your best interest legally and financially, especially considering their professions.

I totally understand being tired of the crappy attitude and wanting to preserve some dignity and self-respect. To this day I wish I had slapped BF's face so hard you could see my hand print. But what feels good in the moment isn't necessarily what's best in the long term.