I think you are right that I have to just continue communication without pursuit and remain confidant and attractive to her. I might consider some subtle romantic gestures, if the opportunity arises.
I guess I just have to be patient. I am speaking with a relationship coach and she says that the loser boyfriend relationship is doomed and can't work anyway, for reasons that I listed previously.
Thanks, Reggie
Would a confident and attractive man sit at home and wait for his wife to end her relationship with her "loser" boyfriend or would a confident and attractive man move on because he knows that there are plenty of fish in the sea?