Almost a year exactly since my wife dropped the bomb. I wouldn't relive this past year if you paid me $10 million. Our court date is Wednesday. I think even my wife has started to see that this was a bad way to solve our problems. But it is too late. She is living with a guy now, and I have closed my heart to her.
Some good has to come of it, so for anyone new to the process here are a couple thoughts:
1. It is going to get better. The pain will diminish and the fear will become manageable. 2. You will grow as a person. Growth hurts, but it is how we become the people we want to be. 3. Cut yourself a break. Take it easy on yourself. This is hard and you are doing the best you can.
