Give yourself a few months and then you get yoru own copies, both of you work through them... eventually you can both discuss the content of specific passages together as adults.
There is NO WAY she has suddenly grown up into the adult she needs to be to parent three children full time and to be a loving wife... so you give her the time she needs to give it the college try...
You two decide in six months time or so if you are both happy with the progress... I am repeating myself.. I will shut up now lol
Oh, the confronting thing. That's why I suggest the books, she can't argue with a book. lol