Is it too late for this marriage? I want honest answers. We both have to work from home today, we hardly ever talk, and I want someone that loves me in my life. I feel like I am banging my head against this woman's brick wall. I have prayed for her, but as my dad says, nothing will change unless she changes..and she's most likely not going to change unless she has a burning bush moment.

Anyway, I can hardly sleep anymore and am exhausted stressed and emotionally this is very hard to take. I really just wanted my little boy to have an intact family like I had, but she doesn't have the same principles and beliefs. Has anybody ever saved their marriage that was this far gone? Sometimes I feel like this board gives false hope to people who are doomed..I hope that's not the case, I'm doing my best but I don't think the book understands what a stubborn ass this woman is. [/quote]

Lately I've been thinking the same thing. I just want you to know I also wonder about how far my M is gone and no matter how much DB'ing is done is not gonna save it. When someone wants out they just want out.

Hang in there ((((HIM))))))

Last edited by luvless; 03/15/10 06:12 PM.

M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10