I on the other hand am completely opposed to any contact with OM or OW until the relationship is serious.
I think it is DW who is going through similiar issues with the intro crap and this topic was brought up by the mediator in my case. He asked if we wanted to add language to the settlement agreement on this. But the bottom line is if my STBX can't honor her M vows what are the odds she will honor D vows?
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W or at least the 16 year love struck girl that she has become is convinced that OM she met in a bar three weeks ago, who is going through a D as well, is the one.
I don't see or talk to my STBX enough now to view the adolescent behavior that I observed and poached from her text messages while she still lived under the same roof but I imagine it is still in play. Is this behavioral trait common for a MLCer?
Glad you were able to keep your emotions in check and if you can get full custody more power to you.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
