Well I need some advice about how to move this forward.
Apparently H has told D that he is now moving into OW house as her H has now just moved out. They have never lived together before other than the odd weekend. He has also told his aunt which means that as far as he is concerned this is permanent.
Not sure what all the reconnecting was about but there we are.
What is the next step for me. I know detach and GAL but should I be looking at boundaries. He currently has full access to the house whether I am here or not. He also states when he will visit the children. His motorbikes and engineering tools are in my garage.
Any advice would be welcome. Though I try not to be I am gutted by this revelation particularly that yet again my D has to tell me.